The secret meetup that helps you make new friends

The Netherlands is one of the most difficult countries in the world to make new friends. Expats in particular know how hard it can be to make friends after moving here for work or study. Although, they aren't the only ones looking for friendship. Research from the Dutch Central Bureau of Statistics (CBS) shows that almost half the Dutch population feels lonely.

Vibend: Helping people connect

A new startup called Vibend aims to tackle this problem for both expats and Dutchies. Vibend introduces you to four to six compatible people over coffee or brunch. They create a sort of personalised meetup where everyone participating is looking for friendship.

Vibend matches you based on personality, interests, and age to create group compatibility. If they have a matching group, you'll get an invitation to join one of their meetups. Over 500+ people have attended their meetups, with many users often coming more than once.

Testimonials

But, does it actually work? Here’s what two Vibend users had to say about it:

"I've lived in my city for close to a decade and found myself in a transitional period in my friendships. I wanted to make new friends, and that's when I came across Vibend's poster. I've joined a couple of Vibend meetings so far and I really like it! It's a great and relaxed way to meet new people and make new friendships. I prefer the smaller group meetings since the conversations go to a deeper level." ~ Julia F.

"I did it twice, and I had a great time both times. Thanks to the icebreakers, there were no awkward silences. The café where it happens is a nice spot too, nice menu and easy to reach with public transport." ~ Anna J.

Traditional meetups or social events are usually large gatherings. This is great if you are looking to meet many people at once, but can also be intimidating. It can be a challenge to actually find the people you share something in common with at such gatherings.

Expand your social circle with Vibend

With Vibend, you don't meet many people at once, instead you meet the right people. Vibend creates small, intimate meetups designed to foster genuine friendships. This personalised approach ensures that you meet people of similar age and interests - making it easier to actually make new friends.

Vibend is available in Amsterdam and Rotterdam, and will be coming soon to more cities in the Netherlands. If you are an expat or a Dutchie who is looking to meet new people and forge new friendships, you can sign up here.